The Flag Color Code
Red Flag (The "Run")
Toxic, dangerous, or disrespectful behavior. Usually a dealbreaker. Example: They are rude to waiters.
Beige Flag (The "Huh?")
Not bad, not good. Just weird quirks that make you pause. Example: They have zero apps on their phone.
Green Flag (The "Keeper")
Healthy, mature, and attractive traits. Example: They apologize without making excuses.
When is a Beige Flag a Red Flag?
Beige flags become red flags when they indicate a deeper incompatibility with your values. For example, "They don't like music" is beige (weird), but if you are a musician, it might be red (incompatible).