Red Flag, Green Flag, or Beige Flag?

Is their behavior toxic (Red), a keeper move (Green), or just weird (Beige)? Check the verdict instantly.

The Flag Color Code

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Red Flag (The "Run")

Toxic, dangerous, or disrespectful behavior. Usually a dealbreaker. Example: They are rude to waiters.

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Beige Flag (The "Huh?")

Not bad, not good. Just weird quirks that make you pause. Example: They have zero apps on their phone.

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Green Flag (The "Keeper")

Healthy, mature, and attractive traits. Example: They apologize without making excuses.

When is a Beige Flag a Red Flag?

Beige flags become red flags when they indicate a deeper incompatibility with your values. For example, "They don't like music" is beige (weird), but if you are a musician, it might be red (incompatible).

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is a "Beige Flag"?

A Beige Flag is a habit that is strange, odd, or annoying, but not necessarily a dealbreaker. It's neither good (Green) nor toxic (Red)β€”it's just... beige.

How accurate is this checker?

This tool uses a database of common dating behaviors categorized by relationship experts and internet consensus. However, context always matters!

What should I do if I find a Red Flag?

One red flag might be a misunderstanding, but a pattern of them is a warning sign. Trust your gut and consider setting boundaries.